Thursday, April 26, 2012

Mata Pria dan Wanita



1. Pandangan wanita lebih melebar, pandangan pria lebih tajam

Pria sering banget kepergok lagi ngelirik wanita lain yang lewat di sebelahnya . Padahal, wanita juga sering kok mengagumi pria ganteng yang kebetulan melintas. Bedanya, kalau wanita nggak perlu menoleh karena jangkauan pandangannya lebih dari 180 derajat. Ini karena mata seorang wanita punya lebih banyak jenis kerucut dalam retinanya.

Mata seorang pria ukurannya lebih besar dari mata wanita, dan otak menyusunnya seperti sebuah terowongan. Artinya, pria bisa ngeliat lebih jelas, lebih tepat, dan lebih jauh dibanding wanita. Mirip teropong !

2. Pria lebih bisa melihat di dalam gelap

Kalo udah malem, lebih baik jangan serahkan tugas nyetir pada wanita. Soalnya, ternyata pria emang lebih mahir ngeliat di dalam gelap dibanding wanita . Apalagi, pria juga punya kemampuan spasial yang lebih baik di otak kanannya.

Sebaliknya, wanita biasanya kesulitan melihat jarak jauh di dalam kegelapan. Kemampuan ruang yang terbatas juga bikin sebagian besar wanita sulit menentukan arah laju kendaraan lain di malam hari.

3. Mata wanita bisa melihat lebih banyak

Sejak ribuan tahun yang lalu, otak pria dipersiapkan untuk berburu. Kita harus bisa melihat banyak hal dalam area yang sempit. Otak kita secara otomatis menyempitkan penglihatan kita supaya bisa memusatkan perhatian pada satu hal yang khusus, misalnya binatang buruan.

Pada wanita nggak seperti ini. Sebagai spesies yang terbiasa bertugas melindungi sarang atau tempat tinggal, otak wanita pun terprogram untuk mengolah semua informasi visual yang masuk di lingkup yang lebih luas. Inilah kenapa wanita lebih gampang mencari barang hilang dibanding pria, karena otaknya bisa memproses lebih banyak “gambar” dalam satu waktu dibanding pria.



Snow In Sahara January 2012

Laporan berita membicarakan sesuatu yang sangat sulit dipercaya, seperti pohon-pohon palem padang pasir yang berlatarkan bukit-bukit salju layaknya resor ski Alpine.

Media Afrika menjelaskan badai di Sahara akan menghasilkan beberapa konsekuensi positif. Selain sukacita anak-anak dan wabah hasil parasit di pohon, dan memulihkan air tanah yang mampengaruhi kelangsungan hidup oasis padang pasir.



Salju turun pada hari Selasa di Sahara Barat di Aljazair. 24 jam dingin itu membawa salju dan hujan di wilayah tersebut. Angin yang sangat kencang disertai salju itu menerpa di jalan-jalan dan fasilitas di provinsi Bechar. Badan meteorologi meramalkan cuaca baik untuk kembali pada hari Rabu. Orang yang tinggal di wilayah tersebut mengatakan bahwa salju itu baik untuk telapak tangan, untuk membunuh parasit. Bechar terletak di Sahara utara, sekitar 36 mil selatan perbatasan Maroko.



Rahasia Wanita

Setiap wanita pasti punya rahasia, dan inilah rahasia umum yang disembunyikan wanita dari pasangannya.

1. Harga asli lebih mahal

Jujur saja, wanita sangat menikmati acara belanja. Apalagi kebanyakan dari kaum wanita memang tak bisa menahan diri saat musim sale tiba. Sadar kebiasaan ini bisa memicu perdebatan dengan pasangan, banyak wanita yang memilih menyembunyikan harga sebenarnya dari barang-barang yang dibeli.

2. Sering memikirkan tentang seks

Bukan cuma pria yang suka memikirkan tentang seks, wanita juga, hanya bedanya yang ada dalam fantasi wanita adalah pasangannya. Sayangnya, di malam hari terkadang kaum hawa ini terlalu lelah dan kehabisan energi untuk mewujudkan fantasinya.

3. Takut komitmen

Memang benar bahwa wanita sering memimpikan pernikahan yang romantis, serba putih, dan bersanding dengan pangeran tampan. Tapi, wanita juga tak berbeda jauh dengan pria, mereka juga cemas dan takut saat memikirkan komitmen. Segala hal yang menimbulkan ketidak pastian memang membuat hati ragu. Apakah pria ini akan jadi suami yang baik, apakah pernikahan kami akan bahagia, dan sederet keraguan lainnya langsung hinggap di kepala saat membicarakan tentang pernikahan.

4. Tetap butuh bantuan

Wanita masa kini memang lebih modern dan mandiri, tapi bagaimana pun juga dalam hati kecil setiap wanita membutuhkan bantuan dan perlindungan dari pasangannya. Membetulkan mobil yang mogok, memiliki pengetahuan yang luas, atau sekadar membawakan tas, sudah membuat wanita merasa lebih feminin dan aman bersama si dia.

5. Ingin dicemburui

Rasanya setiap wanita ingin diperhatikan oleh pasangan dan sedikit dicemburui. Hal itu akan membuat wanita merasa menjadi orang yang dibutuhkan dan disayangi pasangannya. Itu sebabnya, saat ada pria lain memuji kecantikan, kami berharap pasangan mengetahuinya dan memperlihatkan rasa cemburu.

6. Curhat pada sahabat

Pada sahabat kita leluasa bercerita tentang berbagai hal, tapi tak semua hal dibuka begitu saja. Ada hal-hal tertentu yang tetap kami simpan sendiri terutama yang sifatnya sangat pribadi, misalnya kesedihan suami saat orangtuanya meninggal, dan sebagainya.

7. Suka pada hal-hal romantis

Setiap wanita pada dasarnya menyukai hal-hal yang romantis atau sesuatu yang bisa menimbulkan sensasi bahagia, seperti saat sedang jatuh cinta. Makanya, untuk mengulang sensasi jatuh cinta ini, kebanyakan wanita adalah penggemar film-film cinta atau komedi romantis.

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Monday, April 23, 2012

Nice Quotes !



You are the creator of yourself and this is your world


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Love has the power to heal, motivate, inspire, and empower us.


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Most people in the world wear masks, false personas, developed by the Ego to protect them.


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Fear and love cannot exist in the same place.


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When you learn to live in love, loving yourself, other people and the world around you, you will begin to love you.


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Love is not something that we can give or receive, but something we experience.


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Happiness and sadness, caring and trust are what love and friendship are made up of.


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The secret of a happy couple is a relationship built on the foundation of love.


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Life is meant to be enjoyed. Life was never meant to be a struggle !


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If we are not present in the moment appreciating each moment, we will miss the best part of our lives.


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It is not in the stars that hold our destiny, but in ourselves.


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Our Inner Being is always guiding us to the right choices.


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Most of us search for one thing in life; the feeling of Love


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There are many paths to the top of the mountain, but the view is always the same.


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If you know life is supposed to be fun, you know more than almost anybody else knows.


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It requires wisdom to understand wisdom; the music is nothing if the audience is deaf.


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It is impossible to love fully, completely and unconditionally until we have healed our anger.


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When you are really in the flow with your inner being, ideas come easily


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Your emotion does not create. Emotion is your indicator of what you are already creating.


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You are the essence of all that is good and light and bright. You are everything you ever dreamt of being, right now.

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Every time you don't follow your inner guidance, you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense for yourself.


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A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is a man who hopes they are.


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When we use heart, things will better themselves


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Don't rush into any kind of relationship. A Plant not growing in a day.


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Best example or influence is your behavior to other people.


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We live to enjoy, not enjoy to live.


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The Beauty of a woman lies in her eyes.


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Do it out of love, not just to please someone you love .


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A person you love is an extension of yourself.


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There is enough time to be an adult.
Let the kids be kids and the young be foolishly young while they can


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A man who won't die for something is not fit to live.


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It pleasures me a lot when I am the cause of someone’s pleasure.


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The world you imagine is more real than your reality, because that’s where our reality comes from.


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Being OLD is guaranteed, being MATURE is a choice


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You're never too old to become younger.


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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.


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Quiet people are nice but suffer silently.


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The worst pain in life is that, someone you know, turns into someone you knew.


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Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in changing others.


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Never explain yourself, your friends don't need it.
Your enemies won't believe it.


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I don't forgive people because I'm weak.
I forgive them because I'm strong enough to know that people make mistakes.


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It’s not important to add years to your life, as it is to add life to your years.


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Beauty Doesn't Create Love, but Love Creates Beauty.


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Don’t wait for the person who u can live your life with, wait for the 1 that u cannot live without.


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The highest happiness is simply being in the highest flow of love.


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Nice Quotes !

Nothing is impossible equals anything is possible

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We cannot waste time. We can only waste ourselves...


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We spend 30% of our life sleeping and 20% studying at school
Give more than you can take !


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There are no people born losers or born winners


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When you're down don't let yourself in the dark, Even your shadow run away from you.


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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak, sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go


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Experience is a great teacher; adversity is a greater


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The world you imagine is more real than your reality,
Because that’s where our reality comes from.


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When we use heart, things will better themselves,
or die trying hard to make things better


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Being OLD is guaranteed, being MATURE is a choice


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The more security you seek, the less freedom you have


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Your world within creates your world without


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What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us


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The Best things in life are not things and always free !


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It's not what happens to you that determines how far you will go in life,
it is how you handle what happens to you


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World is getting better, if we keep doing better every day,
Or we can yell getting worse, because we're not doing better every day.


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Keep dreaming and make reality, or stop dreaming and face reality


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Without passion you don't have energy, without energy you have nothing


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Relying on others makes room for disappointment. Relying on yourself makes
room for improvement


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Things do not happen, Things are made to Happen


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The purpose of life is life on purpose


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Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward !


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Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail


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A person's character is built by small matters and shown on big matters


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Change your mind = change your attitude = change your life


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Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking


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It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.


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Our greatest battles are that with our own minds.


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The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.


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In order to discover new lands, one must be willing to lose sight of the shore for a very long time.


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In the end, you're measured not by how much you undertake but by what you finally accomplish


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A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honorable
but more useful than a life spent doing nothing


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If you learn only methods, you'll be tied to your methods,
but if you learn principles you can devise your own methods


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I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love
than to be a success at something you hate


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Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one.


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The harder you fall, the higher you bounce


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There are no short cuts to any place worth going.


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Take heed: you do not find what you do not seek.


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Whether you can do it or not , you re right


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One who makes no mistakes never makes anything.


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You miss One hundred percent of the shots you don't take.


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The harder something to achieve, the more greater the reward and satisfaction


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Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that,
but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.


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The men who try to do something and fail are infinitely
better than those who try to do nothing and succeed

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What makes you great is not having more knowledge or skill but WILL !!


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Nothing great in the world be accomplished without passion


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You cannot plough a field by turning it over in your mind.


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Who has never tasted what is bitter does not know what is sweet.


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People know you for what you've done, not for what you plan to do


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Purpose of life is Life On Purpose


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Life is weak when you are hard and vice versa


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Be yourself,because everyone else is taken


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Feeling creates your future, mind make it happen


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If you can dream it you can Do it


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One who paddle a boat, wont worry about the shaky boat


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You have to 'dream' so you can get up in the morning


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"Be very careful what you say to yourself because someone very important is
listening... You


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The meaning of life is to give life meaning


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Change your mind = change your attitude = change your life
better and worse also considered change


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If you are trying you are 50% fail if not 100%


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If you can talk, you can sing; If you can walk, you can dance.


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Reward for believe = getting what you have


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Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the
stars


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The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams


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You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you !


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Nice Quotes !

Wherever you go, Whatever the weather is , always bring your own sunshine


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Life has no pause button! Dreams have no expiration date! Time has no holiday!

"Don't waste a single moment of your life. LIVE IT! ROCK IT!


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To be Successful in relationship :
A man have to love a woman so much and understand a little,
A Woman have to love a man a little and understand so much


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If women didn't exist , all the money in the world has no meaning


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One day you think you are going to die because of love and the other day you want to live to love.


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How to please a woman make man cleverer


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Life seems to be lighter when we don't feel.
When we are too sensitive, small things transform into drama.


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Love make us fly and fool


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Don't make someone a priority if they only make you an option


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Men, their rights and nothing more, Women their rights, and nothing less


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Don’t be a Man that need a Woman, be the Man that Woman need


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Mature Love is Commitment


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You know you're in love when you don't wanna go to sleep at night


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Happiness doesn't depend on what you are or what you have,
but on How you THINK !


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Good intentions make good karma, it is showed in how great is your life


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What we receive in the outside comes from the results of the intentions we have inside


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You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with


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You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with


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Friendship is not a BIG thing, it is a MILLION little things


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The best time to make friends is before you need them.


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A Million candle can be lit from a single candle, So is Happiness..


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Happiness is a Journey, not a Destination


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Mature love says i need you because i love you


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Everyday may not be good, but there's something good everyday


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Relationship need problems to grow up


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Beauty of a Woman lies in their eyes and heart


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A woman has the power to build or destroy a man


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To love so much is ready to hurt so much


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What soap is for the body, tears are for the soul


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When I'm looking for friends i cant find any, when i become a friend i find a lot


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When you ask, give me everything to enjoy life, you have life to enjoy everything


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The Best things in life are not things and always free !


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Gratitude will multiply everything in your life !!


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Things do not happen, Things are made to Happen


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You know best what is the best for yourself !


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In this world, what’s beautiful or not , lies in the eyes of the beholder


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Happiness is the fuel of Success


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I don't care what matters annoy me, because I’m focusing more in giving than receiving


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Change your mind = change your attitude = change your life


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When you have love, Happiness and wealth will absolutely follow you,
whether in relationship or business.


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The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams


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When you focus on Enough, you will never lack of anything in your life


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Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it


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You're writing the story of your life one moment at a time.


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It is better and easier to be loved than loving someone
but loving someone make us feel more satisfied and maturer


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The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate


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Be yourself, because everyone else is taken


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Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift;
that's why they call it the present.


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Gratitude will better your life, Always !


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Don't love someone because of who/what they are,
love because you want to !


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Mature love : i need you because I love you


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Only if you think n feel your life is perfect, then your life is perfect


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Why look for happiness in your life, when it lies within your heart ?


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If love is blind, how can there be love at first sight ?


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If you Enjoy life - Life tend to give you more


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To the world you may be just one person,
but to one person you may be the world


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Kind words can be short and easy to speak,
but their echoes are truly endless


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The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart


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Our smile n sad have multiplier effect on people


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You find your true love when you don't have to lie n pretending


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The only reason to be happy is making someone, everyone happy


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If you are dealing with people use your heart, yourself with your brain.


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Happiness and unhappiness is an option


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Happiness is best medicine and keep us healthy


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When you appreciate what you have you have everything
When you appreciate what u don't have u have nothing.


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The way we see ourselves = the way others see ourselves


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We are responsible for our happiness


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Looks capture attention, personality capture the hearts


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Feeling creates your future, mind make it happen


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Everyday we make small decision that add up and lead us to certain way...


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Hidup Untuk Memberi

Disuatu sore hari pada saat aku pulang kantor dengan mengendarai sepeda motor, aku disuguhkan suatu drama kecil yang sangat menarik, seorang anak kecil berumur lebih kurang sepuluh tahun dengan sangat sigapnya menyalip disela-sela kepadatan kendaraan disebuah lampu merah perempatan jalan di Jakarta .

Dengan membawa bungkusan yang cukup banyak diayunkannya sepeda berwarna biru muda, sambil membagikan bungkusan tersebut ,ia menyapa akrab setiap orang, dari Tukang koran , Penyapu jalan, Tuna wisma sampai Pak polisi.

Pemandangan ini membuatku tertarik, pikiran ku langsung melayang membayangkan apa yang diberikan si anak kecil tersebut dengan bungkusannya, apakah dia berjualan ? �kalau dia berjualan apa mungkin seorang tuna wisma menjadi langganan tetapnya atau�??, untuk membunuh rasa penasaran ku, aku pun membuntuti si anak kecil tersebut sampai disebrang jalan , setelah itu aku langsung menyapa anak tersebut untuk aku ajak berbincang-bincang. De, �boleh kakak bertanya� ? silahkan kak, kalau boleh tahu yang barusan adik bagikan ketukang koran, tukang sapu, peminta-minta bahkan pak polisi, itu apa ?, oh� itu bungkusan nasi dan sedikit lauk kak, memang kenapa kak!, dengan sedikit heran , sambil ia balik bertanya. Oh.. tidak! , kakak Cuma tertarik cara kamu membagikan bungkusan itu, kelihatan kamu sudah terbiasa dan cukup akrab dengan mereka. Apa kamu sudah lama kenal dengan mereka?

Lalu ,Adik kecil ini mulai bercerita, �Dulu ! aku dan ibuku sama seperti mereka hanya seorang tuna wisma �,setiap hari bekerja hanya mengharapkan belaskasihan banyak orang, dan seperti kakak ketahui hidup di Jakarta begitu sulit, sampai kami sering tidak makan, waktu siang hari kami kepanasan dan waktu malam hari kami kedinginan ditambah lagi pada musim hujan kami sering kehujanan, apabila kami mengingat waktu dulu, kami sangat-sangat sedih , namun setelah ibu ku membuka warung nasi, kehidupan keluarga kami mulai membaik.

Maka dari itu ibu selalu mengingatkanku, bahwa masih banyak orang yang susah seperti kita dulu , jadi kalau saat ini kita diberi rejeki yang cukup , kenapa kita tidak dapat berbagi kepada mereka.
Yang ibu ku selalu katakan � hidup harus berarti buat banyak orang �, karena pada saat kita pergi tidak ada yang kita bawa, hanya satu yang kita bawa yaitu Kasih kepada sesama serta Amal dan Perbuatan baik kita , kalau hari ini kita bisa mengamalkan sesuatu yang baik buat banyak orang , kenapa kita harus tunda.

Karena menurut ibuku umur manusia terlalu singkat , hari ini kita memiliki segalanya, namun satu jam kemudian kita pergi, Apa yang kita bawa�?. Kata-kata adik kecil ini sangat menusuk hati ku, saat itu juga aku merasa menjadi orang yang tidak berguna, bahkan aku merasa tidak lebih dari seonggok sampah yang tidak ada gunanya,dibandingkan adik kecil ini.

Aku yang selama ini merasa menjadi orang hebat dengan pendidikan dan jabatan tinggi, namun untuk hal seperti ini, aku merasa lebih bodoh dari anak kecil ini, aku malu dan sangat malu. Yah.. Ampunilah aku, ternyata kekayaan, kehebatan dan jabatan tidak mengantarku kepada Mu
Terima kasih adik kecil, kamu adalah malaikat ku yang menyadarkan aku dari tidur nyenyak ku.
"Hidup akan berarti jika kita mau membagikan sesuatu untuk orang lain dan tidak hanya fokus untuk menyenangkan diri kita sendiri "

Sepasang Telinga

"Bisa saya melihat bayi saya?" pinta seorang ibu yang baru melahirkan penuh kebahagiaan. Ketika gendongan itu berpindah ke tangannya dan ia membuka selimut yang membungkus wajah bayi lelaki yang mungil itu, ibu itu menahan nafasnya. Dokter yang menungguinya segera berbalik memandang kearah luar jendela rumah sakit. Bayi itu dilahirkan tanpa kedua belah telinga.
Waktu membuktikan bahwa pendengaran bayi yang kini telah tumbuh menjadi seorang anak itu bekerja dengan sempurna. Hanya penampilannya saja yang tampak aneh dan buruk. Suatu hari anak lelaki itu bergegas pulang ke rumah dan membenamkan wajahnya di pelukan sang ibu yang menangis. Ia tahu hidup anak lelakinya penuh dengan kekecewaan dan tragedi. Anak lelaki itu terisak-isak sambil berkata, "Seorang anak laki-laki besar mengejekku. Katanya, aku ini makhluk aneh."

Anak lelaki itu tumbuh dewasa. Ia cukup tampan dengan cacatnya. Iapun disukai teman-teman sekolahnya. Ia juga mengembangkan bakatnya di bidang musik dan menulis. Ia ingin sekali menjadi ketua kelas. Ibunya mengingatkan,"Bukankah nantinya kau akan bergaul dengan remaja-remaja lain?" Namun dalam hati ibu merasa kasihan dengannya.

Suatu hari ayah anak lelaki itu bertemu dengan seorang dokter yang bisa mencangkokkan telinga untuknya. "Saya percaya saya bisa memindahkan sepasang telinga untuknya. Tetapi harus ada seseorang yang bersedia mendonorkan telinganya," kata dokter. Kemudian, orangtua anak lelaki itu mulai mencari siapa yang mau mengorbankan telinga dan mendonorkannya pada mereka.
Beberapa bulan sudah berlalu. Dan tibalah saatnya mereka memanggil anak lelakinya, "Nak, seseorang yang tak ingin dikenal telah bersedia mendonorkan telinganya padamu. Kami harus segera mengirimmu ke rumah sakit untuk dilakukan operasi. Namun, semua ini sangatlah rahasia." kata sang ayah.

Operasi berjalan dengan sukses. Seorang lelaki baru pun lahirlah. Bakat musiknya yang hebat itu berubah menjadi kejeniusan. Ia pun menerima banyak penghargaan dari sekolahnya. Beberapa waktu kemudian ia pun menikah dan bekerja sebagai seorang diplomat. Ia menemui ayahnya, "Yah, aku harus mengetahui siapa yang telah bersedia
mengorbankan ini semua padaku, ia telah berbuat sesuatu yang besar namun aku sama sekali belum membalas kebaikannya." Ayahnya menjawab, "Ayah yakin kau takkan bisa membalas kebaikan hati orang yang telah memberikan telinga itu." Setelah terdiam sesaat ayahnya melanjutkan, "Sesuai dengan perjanjian, belum saatnya bagimu untuk mengetahui semua rahasia ini."

Tahun berganti tahun. Kedua orangtua lelaki itu tetap menyimpan rahasia. Hingga suatu hari tibalah saat yang menyedihkan bagi keluarga itu. Di hari itu ayah dan anak lelaki itu berdiri di tepi peti jenazah ibunya yang baru saja meninggal. Dengan perlahan dan lembut, sang ayah membelai rambut jenazah ibu yang terbujur kaku itu, lalu menyibaknya sehingga tampaklah... bahwa sang ibu tidak memiliki telinga.

"Ibumu pernah berkata bahwa ia senang sekali bisa memanjangkan rambutnya," bisik sang ayah. "Dan tak seorang pun menyadari bahwa ia telah kehilangan sedikit kecantikannya bukan?" Kecantikan yang sejati tidak terletak pada penampilan tubuh namun di dalam hati.